How to get married in Norway

DAVID NIKEL
Trondheim, Norway

Dreaming of a wedding by the fjord? Here are the rules and regulations about marriage in Norway.

Foreign citizens living in Norway can get married in the country—to a Norwegian or to each other.

Weddings in Norway are overseen by the Norwegian Tax Administration. That might sound odd, but they are the authority responsible for the National Population Register.

In this article, learn about the rules and regulations for who can get hitched in Norway and how to go about it, plus a look at some of the wedding traditions you can expect.

Who can marry in Norway?

Two Norwegian citizens or residents of Norway of either gender are able to get married in Norway.

Same-sex marriage became legal in Norway in 2009 following the passing of a gender-neutral marriage bill. At this point, Norway was the first Scandinavian country and the sixth country in the world to legalize same-sex marriage. Previously, Norway had permitted same-sex couples to enter into registered partnerships as far back as 1993.

In 2015, the Church of Norway voted to allow same-sex marriages to take place in its churches, a practice that began in 2017.

Norwegian wedding traditions

At first glance, a wedding in Norway appears similar to one in the United Kingdom or the United States. You can expect a “first dance” and a

 guestbook, but there are plenty of differences, too.

Wedding speeches

The biggest difference you’ll notice is the number of speeches. In Norway, you can expect speeches from the father of the bride, the groom, the bride, the chief bridesmaid, the best man, the father of the groom, and then anyone else who feels compelled to chip in with a toast or some advice to the newlyweds!

Another key difference is that the speeches tend to be spread out throughout the dinner, between courses, rather than delivered all in one go after the dinner. I’ve also heard from some people that the speeches tend to have a more formal, emotional tone in Norway.

Kissing and other curiosities

There are also a number of Norwegian wedding traditions that can really confuse you if you’re a first-time attendee!

When you hear other guests start tapping their cutlery against their glass—clink, clink, clink—the happy couple must stand and kiss. You may also hear the stamping of feet, which is the queue for the couple to get under the table and kiss.

When the bride visits the bathroom, all the women should kiss the groom on the cheek, with the reverse happening when the groom leaves!

Places to get married in Norway

Two types of wedding venues are popular in Norway: outdoors with the country’s landscapes providing a spectacular backdrop or in one of the many traditional churches throughout the country.

Ceremonies within the country’s beautiful stave churches are especially popular, although these need to be booked well in advance, as they are not generally open in the winter and many aren’t suitable for weddings.

But beyond stave churches, rural Norway is home to a huge number of traditional churches. Many are close to the water’s edge offering just as memorable an experience.

Conducting the formalities overseas and holding a symbolic ceremony in Norway opens a tremendous number of possible locations, although you’ll likely need the services of a wedding planner to pull everything together.

And, of course, there’s always the option of a city. Big cities like Oslo, Bergen, Stavanger, and Trondheim have a good range of hotels and other venues that offer wedding services. It could be cheaper or easier to hold the ceremony in a city and then take your honeymoon touring the country.

Requirements for getting married

The requirements for getting married in Norway depend on the immigration status of both people.

Norwegian citizens and permanent residents

If both people are Norwegian citizens or foreign citizens that hold permanent residence, the requirements are the same. You simply need to apply for a certificate of no impediment to enter into marriage, which is a straightforward process, detailed below.

If both of you hold permanent residence, you follow the same process as a Norwegian citizen. Simple! But permanent residence doesn’t just mean you live in Norway. It is a specific immigration status available as the step before citizenship.

The rules for permanent residence are complex and depend on many things, but the most relevant are your country of citizenship and the length of time you have lived in Norway, usually between three and five years. Non-EU/EEA citizens will also need proof of language proficiency.

Other residents of Norway

If one or both people getting married is not a Norwegian citizen and does not hold permanent residence, they must submit documentation to the Norwegian Tax Administration before continuing with the regular process. Such documentation includes:

Personal declaration

Statement by the sponsor

Declaration concerning division—if he or she has been married before (if you are divorced according to foreign law, the divorce must be recognized by the county governor through a separate process)

Documentation of name and age, most likely with a passport or birth certificate

 An apostilled certificate from the person’s country of citizenship stating they are free to marry in Norway, including a full certified Norwegian translation

Proof of legal residency in Norway

Non-residents of Norway

If one or both of you are not resident in Norway, you are not able to get legally married in Norway. However, some people do choose to hold a ceremonial wedding in Norway, even though they do the legal formalities in their home country.

Typically, this involves doing everything that a normal wedding would involve, including a memorable ceremony, but the actual legal marriage takes place at a registrar in your home country.

The formal marriage process

To start the process, you must apply for a certificate of no impediment to enter into marriage. The easiest way to do this is online, and to do so you’ll both need a Norwegian national identity number and be able to log in using an electronic ID, such as BankID or BuyPass.

As outlined above, those who are not Norwegian citizens and do not hold permanent residence will need to supply extra information, which also means the process will take longer.

Once the documentation has been processed, the certificate of no impediment to enter into marriage is sent in the post and is valid for up to four months. It must then be sent to the wedding official before the wedding. At the ceremony, proof of ID will be required, usually with a passport, driver’s license or a debit card that carries a photograph.

Once the Norwegian Tax Administration receives the approved documentation from the wedding official, they will send you a marriage certificate.

Recognition of foreign weddings

If you live in Norway but intend to get married abroad for whatever reason, it is possible to enter into the marriage under either foreign or Norwegian law.

Marriages that take place at Norwegian foreign service missions abroad are conducted in accordance with Norwegian law, and the same usually applies to weddings held at Sjømannskirken, the Norwegian Church Abroad.

To get married at a Norwegian embassy or at Sjømannskirken, you must follow the same procedures detailed above. There is one difference though, and that’s the requirement for residence in Norway, which doesn’t apply to a person who isn’t a Norwegian resident.

If you intend to get married under foreign law, you must check with the authorities what documentation they will require. The country will likely require a certificate from Norway confirming the person(s) are free to marry. To get this, the above procedure must be followed.

Once you are married, to have it recognized in Norway, you must present your original marriage certificate to the Norwegian Tax Administration.

Reprinted from www.lifeinnorway.net.

This article originally appeared in the March 12, 2021, issue of The Norwegian American. To subscribe, visit SUBSCRIBE or call us at (206) 784-4617.